Relationships
"Whatever remains unsaid , whatever remains unexplained , whatever remains un expressed, understanding that is what forms the core of a relationship" If the unsaid, unexplained and unexpressed is implicit and understood it forms a relatively stronger relationship however once these elements are not understood and the need for saying, explaining and expressing increases, that's where the stress in a relationship increases
It is such a tacit understanding that leads to the ultimate destroyer of every relationship. ..expectation. ..What a beautiful dichotomy to be in. .Understanding what is never said, never expressed , never explained ...creates a need for no further explanation. .It leads to expectations. ..and once expectations start faltering , that's where the relationship starts turning sour. ..
So in a way it's like a Frankensteinish story of relationships with expectations. ....The more you understand each other the better the relationship bbecomes and hence the increase in expectations. ..
At the crux of human lives is nothing but this intermingling and entwined maze of cseemingly simple but extrememly delicate and complex relationships..Lives are made , lives are destroyed, lives are left wandering if this tangled mess gets any messier. .
While it's great not to have expectations and keep it simple, a famous saying sums it up, "It's so simple to be happy but so difficult to be simple"..
YOU & ME were US once, but then YOU came and we became YOU & ME
"Whatever remains unsaid , whatever remains unexplained , whatever remains un expressed, understanding that is what forms the core of a relationship" If the unsaid, unexplained and unexpressed is implicit and understood it forms a relatively stronger relationship however once these elements are not understood and the need for saying, explaining and expressing increases, that's where the stress in a relationship increases
It is such a tacit understanding that leads to the ultimate destroyer of every relationship. ..expectation. ..What a beautiful dichotomy to be in. .Understanding what is never said, never expressed , never explained ...creates a need for no further explanation. .It leads to expectations. ..and once expectations start faltering , that's where the relationship starts turning sour. ..
So in a way it's like a Frankensteinish story of relationships with expectations. ....The more you understand each other the better the relationship bbecomes and hence the increase in expectations. ..
At the crux of human lives is nothing but this intermingling and entwined maze of cseemingly simple but extrememly delicate and complex relationships..Lives are made , lives are destroyed, lives are left wandering if this tangled mess gets any messier. .
While it's great not to have expectations and keep it simple, a famous saying sums it up, "It's so simple to be happy but so difficult to be simple"..
YOU & ME were US once, but then YOU came and we became YOU & ME
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